What's wrong with long distance relationship?


BISMILLAHIRRAHMANIRRAHIM
ASSALAMUALAIKUM WBT



Selalu dengar orang-orang yang baru kahwin complain pasal long-distance-relationship. And every time bila orang merungut pasal duduk jauh-jauh ni I will always be like, alaaa, long-distance je pun, bukannya tak boleh jumpa langsung. Seriously, kalau time bercinta boleh, why not lepas kahwin? Macam apa ntah.





But you never know. The feeling. Walaupun aku tak pernah merasa lagi long-distance as a real married couple, tapi sedikit sebanyak bila dengar cerita orang, hampir semuanya takkan pernah setuju dengan long-distance ni. Means, once you get married, this might be the toughest thing for you. Logically. Since aku hanya mampu membayangkan sahaja. And I know, it does make sense.





Even masa bujang ni pun kadang-kadang rasa meroyan jugak rindu punya pasal. Tapi sebab dia tau, rindu tu tak pergi ke mana. Imagine lepas kahwin. Rindu tu dah jadi satu kewajipan. Satu tanggungjawab. Yelaaa, buat apa kahwin kalau tak rindu pasangan? Buat apa kahwin kalau jauh? Oooh, point yang kedua tu, I can't really accept that statement. Sebab distance, is not an option. Kadang-kadang sebab kerja, kadang-kadang sebab tanggungjawab, demi masa depan. Banyak benda nak diambil berat.





It's gonna be so pain. Kalau tak sakit kat kita, mungkin sakit kat pasangan kita. Menahan rindu. Menahan perasaan. Once you get married nanti, fahamlah tu. Eh, aku pun belum kahwin lagi but somehow, I believe that cakap-cakap orang ni boleh pakai sebenarnya. About this part laaa. Yang lain-lain, tengoklah macam mana.










Anyway, kawan tempat kerja lama yang aku kata immature meroyan sebab aku pindah kolej tu dah berbaik balik. We're back as sister gichuuuuuuu. And she's back for good. With breaking news amaigaaaddd she's getting married!!! It's gonna be an awesome 2016 for her. What a great start. Getting married, having a graduation, what else? Dapat baby cepat kak! Ok, ok, I'm good to go now. Later makcik potpet lagi. Bye!



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